Saddest goodbye: Devoted couple married for 62 years forced to separate

The couple shedding tears
A couple who have spent almost their entire lives with one another, are being forced to spend their golden years apart because they cannot get into the same care home.
Wolf Gottschalk, 83, and his wife Anita, 81, met and fell in love while their families lived in the same apartment complex in Dusseldorf, Germany when they were teenagers.
The couple got married in 1954, as he worked in construction and was a Merchant Marine while she worked in retail.
After a few months of wedded bliss , they decided they wanted a better life for their future children and immigrated to Surrey, British Columbia.
Settling there, the couple was never separated from each other, as they went on to have three children – a son and two girls.
But after 62 years, for the past eight months, the couple have been forced to live separately because there are no spaces at care homes close by that can accommodate two people.
Added to their worries is their failing health and the urge to spend as much time with one another, while they still can.
Outlining the family’s impossible situation in a Facebook posting, their granddaughter Ashley Bartyik aired her sadness and frustration at the current situation.
‘After 62 years together, they’re inseparable. They do everything together,’ she wrote.
In speaking to the, Ashley shared that her grandmother had cared for her husband up until January, when doctors told the family he needed to be in a care facility as his condition was worsening.
Wolf is on a waitlist to move into the nursing home where his wife is cared for, called The Residence at Morgan Heights, but the Fraser Health Authority is unable to say when it will happen.
Their family is doing all they can to ensure they see each other as often as possible, so every other day family members drive Anita 30 minutes up the road to see her beloved husband.
The Fraser Health Authority says it has been working to get the couple together but says that no care spaces have opened up since Anita moved in.
‘We certainly understand how heartbreaking this is for the family. It’s upsetting for us as well,’ spokeswoman Tasleem Juma told
‘The wife went into assisted living in July and we’ve been working hard with the family to get their loved ones reunited since.
‘One of the challenges with couple reunification is that they don’t necessarily need the same level of care at the same time. In this case, the Wolf’s care needs are considerably higher than his wife’s.
Source Daily Mail UK

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