Nope! Not all men are bastards, they aren’t all jerks.
Seducing a man isn’t as difficult as we always try to make you believe. The fact is : To seduce a man, you first have to seduce… yourself.
Bet on trust, personal development, and ravishing sexy looks, you’ll see your prince charming on a white horse in front of your door…
So here are 8 unbeatable tips to seduce a man!
Get rid of your complexes
You’re not a movie, Pop or fashion star, and you don’t make the covers of magazines. Right ?
Perfect. So chill the fu*k out and stop acting the unattainable girl, you’re going to scare men off…
It’s super intimidating to guys, they won’t dare talk to you! You have complexes, you think you don’t have a nice chest, nice legs, a nice ass, your face is this or your hair is that ?
Stop looking at models and getting complexes…
Don’t worry, not all guys are chasing after Supermodels, but maybe with your false complexes and false impressions you’ll make yourself into a girl who isn’t interested in anything or anyone, despising the men around you and winding up all alone in your bed.
There are girls who aren’t bothered by that…. But they often wind up labeled as girls with problems…
Show your femininity to the greatest possible extent, use your smile, and distinguish yourself from girls who haven’t had the opportunity to get advice.
And go on, free yourself….
Careful, I’m not saying you should take the first guy who comes along, but leave a door open for the one who’s there for you, and be careful, most guys aren’t straight shooters…
Trust your senses
Which one of you is most afraid ?
A guy you don’t know comes up to you in the street, what are you going to think ?
Is he coming up to attack me ?
Tomorrow my picture will be in the newspaper crime column… Well, I’m not saying you have to trust everyone…
But you can form your opinion fast, RIGHT ? Because it’s in the street?
How can you expect him to do things differently ? You’re both in the street!
Wait I want to approach you but I’d rather do it in this shoe shop, if you don’t mind, that way you’ll feel safer.
You have a lot more INTUITION than guys, so make good use of it, although you’re surprised you should realize that he’s charming, tastefully dressed, and you if you’re available, don’t refuse to give him your number if he asks for it politely.
What would you be risking, really? In the worst case, if you don’t answer after two calls he’ll give up.
Observe behaviour carefully
You’re in a trendy bar, there’s a man whose behavior is different with you, you don’t know him but you’re face to face and close together.
He’s looking at you a little longer than the others, he’s talking to a friend but you realize he isn’t really listening, he uses gracious gestures like moving aside to let you pass by.
No need to look any further, he likes you, but he isn’t really to your taste? Okay, I won’t insist…
But on the contrary, if you see something in him that’s different from the others…
How long are you going to wait before you let him know ? If you don’t do it in a subtle and unobtrusive way he may come and approach you at a less comfortable moment…
So make yourself comfortable now!
Remain discreet and mysterious
How should you react if the reverse is true ?
You’re the one who’s super interested… If you really want to draw attention to yourself, you shouldn’t do it by gesticulating, or by recounting all your little adventures at the manicurist, the hair salon, etc….
Above all don’t tell him about your ex… and the ex of your ex, my head is already swimming.
You’ll create the opposite of the effect you want.
Be a mystery, you shouldn’t reveal anything, don’t speak too loudly and let your girlfriends do the talking, just look into his eyes, smile and let it happen.
Takes the lead without him realizing it
OOPS!! He’s coming toward you, don’t panic, let him start the conversation, after a few minutes he’s talking about his life and his passions…
Whatever it is, makes him believe you share the same opinion and if you know more than him on the subject, then you’ll surprise him…
Because it’s your strategy, to surprise this handsome guy… If you want to move on to another topic, surprise him again and invite HIM to have a drink…
You just scored some awesome points!
Do I need to remind you that you should look super feminine and give off the highest level of good vibes, and never talk about your problems if you have them ?
You haven’t won yet, but you’re getting the feeling he’s starting to be interested in you, what do you do? You flatter him, he just says he read the latest book by Ray Bradbury in one week WOW!!!
Make him feel like he’s really great… Act like you’re impressed no matter what he tells you.
Make yourself stand out
Because it’ll be your job to take the lead.
In a boxing ring, the one who observes his opponent at the start is the one who really has a chance to make a difference.
It’s your job to surprise him, show him you’re a smart girl and you’re resourceful, and to do it with subtlety.
If you find him sitting around in his slippers, use a touch of humor to bring him back out, it’s a game of cat and mouse, play with him but make sure you don’t kill him!
Always maintain the mystery
He has a strange look in his eyes.
He realizes that you’re the one he’s been waiting for all this time, he’d like to slow down his watch, make time stop…
HE is simply ready to crack!
He wants more and lets you know it… Hold on, you’re not that easy.
In your place I’d to need to take a breath of fresh air after having to go through all that trouble …
He’ll have to prove that he’s worth it, that he deserves you, right? Are you giving in? You want to say YES !
In my opinion you’re making a major strategic error, instead become indifferent, exchange telephone numbers and leave the scene, leave him to his doubts for a little while…
He’ll only be able to think of you, he won’t sleep a wink 😉
Wha t? You can’t sleep either ? Excuse me, I’d sort of forgotten about you.
Well then, agree to another date and devour him alive !
In the days following your romance, don’t change your attitude, maintain the mystery and don’t say yes to everything, let him slowly win you over little by little, and anyway he’s not going to let you go, so take the opportunity to lead the dance…
The game is On !